Finding a home is about more than just bricks and mortar—it’s about finding a space where you feel safe, understood, and free to be yourself. Much like searching for that ideal home, addressing sexual and intimacy concerns is an essential step toward achieving personal comfort and happiness.
These topics, while common, often remain misunderstood and shrouded in silence—yet they profoundly influence our lives and relationships. Just as a home can provide a secure foundation, openly exploring your sexual and intimacy concerns can create a similarly strong base for emotional and relational well-being.
As a practicing Sex Therapist, I understand sexual & intimacy concerns are very common, yet misunderstood and “shhh shhh” topics for many of us, but why?
Did you realize in America, it is reported 41% of women and 41% of men report concerns related to sex and intimacy? Sexual matters are a way of life and should be addressed more.
What causes Sexual Disorders you ask?
There are many causes of sexual disorders, varying from person to person and from one disorder to another. Three general categories of factors (Physical, psychological and Interpersonal).
For instance, physical causes include organic factors such as diseases and substances. One common organic factor for instance is Erectile Dysfunction. Erectile dysfunction can be caused by various reasons, however, it is reported over 50% may be due to organic factors since erections depend on the circulatory system and blood vessels.
As a sex therapist, I help you discover more about your sexual concerns, needs and how to increase overall sexual desires/intimacy related needs. I aid individuals and couples in learning more about their individualized specific needs and how to address them accordingly. There are several ways to address sexual concerns, the first is being open and flexible in learning.
Also, letting go of fear! Its okay to learn more about yourself/your needs and you are NOT alone! Try not to feel ashamed or be hard on yourself because this in a sensitive topic for many of us and this is okay. Take your time in understanding more and know, you are always welcome to email me to set up a time to explore together in confidential sessions with me! I look forward to working with you!~
About the Author - Raelynn Bass, LPC, MS, a licensed Professional Trauma-Informed Counselor specializing in Sex Therapy and Somatic Therapy. Just as finding the perfect home creates a sanctuary, I help individuals build a supportive and healing inner world to overcome challenges like anxiety, depression, trauma, and addiction. Together, we’ll design a life that feels secure, balanced, and deeply fulfilling—your greatest investment in well-being.
